Arabic AR Chinese (Simplified) ZH-CN English EN French FR German DE Japanese JA Portuguese PT Russian RU Spanish ES Ukrainian UK


6 Lies Many People Tell Themselves & Their Consequences

Latest news

    We’re all liars.

    Yes, even if you pride yourself on your honesty, I know with absolute confidence that there is a metaphorical lying bone within you, and it’s likely a lot bigger than you think.

    You may not lie to others, but you most certainly lie to yourself. But don’t worry — we all do it, myself included, and that’s why I’ve put together a list of six of the most common lies we tend to tell ourselves and the consequences that come along with believing them.

    Keep in mind that the purpose behind this article is not to make you feel dishonest, but to instead help you realize some of the things you may unnecessarily believe, giving you an opportunity to change it and hopefully improve your life.

    Here are the six lies we love to tell ourselves, in both video and written form:

    1. I Was Born That Way

    When used to express pride for a particular character trait, talent, or way of being that you embody, the belief that you were born that way can be a healthy one to have. But the usage that I’m referring to is the refusal to be open to a presented change, or the justification of a particular behaviour, simply because this is how you believe that you have always been.

    Even if you have maintained certain beliefs for an extended period of time, you’re also changing, learning, and growing every single day, so stop holding so firmly onto what you think represents you. I’m not suggesting you make a complete 180 on your way of being; I am simply encouraging you to remain open-minded to change.

    Consequences: Close-mindedness, excessive stubbornness, and the risk of living your life in a particularly small comfort zone.

    2. It’s a Dog-Eat-Dog World

    While we may not use this particular lingo, what it represents is the belief that everyone is inherently selfish and as a result is always out to get you. In the business world in particular, there may be a plethora of examples to support this belief, but there are just as many, if not more, to suggest the opposite.

    I’m not suggesting that you instead openly trust everyone and act recklessly, but rather that you don’t allow this belief to make you close yourself off to others and feel like you need to do everything on your own. There are many people in this world who not only love you, but would also love to see you and your ideas thrive. Approach decisions from a balanced perspective rather than one steeped in the belief that everyone is trying to screw you over.

    Consequences: Untrusting, loneliness, and rudeness as a way of guarding yourself against perceived enemies.

    3. You Can’t Change the World

    Before you overreact, I’m not suggesting that we can all change the world’s way of being on a particular matter single-handedly. But I am referring to the excessive number of times that so many us shut down creative ideas or don’t pursue and/or partake in projects to help the world simply because we feel powerless.

    Yes, we are each a tiny fish in a big sea, but so were some of the most influential figures in history. Don’t worry — I’m not expecting you to immediately get up on your soapbox and start screaming in support of your favourite cause, but I am expecting you to realize that you always have the power to change your perspective toward the world, which in essence does change the world, since your perspective is the only one you know.

    Consequences: Laziness, disempowerment, and the murder of countless wonderful ideas.

    4. I’ll Start Tomorrow/Next Week/Next Month

    This one certainly requires the least explanation and is also the one that we are all likely guilty of believing the most. Whether it be a dietary change, a lifestyle overhaul, or even just a simple task that has helped to populate our daily to-do list for months, we love putting things off for another day.

    While it’s unrealistic to expect ourselves to accomplish everything we’d like to do in a single calendar day, the problem arises when we keep putting certain things off for the perpetual tomorrow. You’ll never be younger or more capable of doing whatever it is that you keep putting off than you are today, so start reinstating the belief that you should take action now!

    Consequences: Unhealthy habits maintained and a lack of drive.

    5. I’m Going to Look Stupid If __________

    If everything we did involved nobody else and would never be seen by anyone, we’d all be amazing at acting on our intuition and being ourselves. But instead, thanks in large part to the internet, things have gone in the opposite direction and our lives have never been more on display.

    The result is that we let self-consciousness filter our decision-making and hold us back from being ourselves out of a fear of being ridiculed. If doing something is truly important to you, finding the courage to do it may seem difficult, but it’s far easier than living the rest of your life sheltered in fear of judgement.

    Consequences: Overthought, giving your power to others, and not being your true self.

    6. It’s Too Late

    If only you had realized this earlier.

    You are past your prime.

    There is no point now.

    The next generation will have to take care of it.

    No matter how you word it or how old you are, we all seemingly love to put certain things in our mental waste basket based on the simple belief that our time to do it has already passed. While this may be the case with certain age-restricted accomplishments, most of what we cast aside can still be done at the ripe old age of whatever you currently are.

    The world is filled with example of late bloomers who have accomplished so much in this world, so stop writing yourself off and go after your dreams!

    Consequences: Pessimism and regret.

    View the original article:

    Do you enjoy uplifting self-help content like this? I’m on a mission to make personal development more interesting for all of us. Be among the first to see my newest content by subscribing to my YouTube channel or liking me on Facebook.

    In the same category are

    Carl Jung’s ‘Synchronicities’ – Is There Meaning To This Experience That Makes Us Question The Universe? “Synchronicity is an ever–present reality for those that have eyes to see” ~ Carl Jung. We’ve all had them – those moments when something happen...
    5 Common Problems Many of Us Face & The Books That Helped Me Overcome Them We all have issues. And as unique as we all are from one another, it’s in our issues that this uniqueness tends to fade away. The characters and...
    New Moon In Pisces: Taking Action Towards Our Wounds We are having a New Moon in Pisces which will occur on March 17th or 18th, depending on where you are located in the world. New Moon’s are the s...
    A Buddhist Teacher’s Perspective To Donald Trump’s Presidency Trump’s presidential win left many people feeling let down by their fellow citizens. It came as a big surprise, particularly to many of the wome...
    5 of The Most Important Questions Anyone Could Ever Ask Themselves While the following questions might seem obvious to some curious ponderers out there, like myself, it has recently come to my attention that many peop...
    Here’s How You Can Stop Absorbing ‘Negative’ Energy From Other People Have you ever cried for no reason or expressed emotions for inexplicable reasons? Well, this could mean one of two things: There actually is a reason ...

    Leave a comment

    Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *